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What's the number one thing you want everyone in this room to walk away with?
你想让观众离开时带走的最重要的东西是什么？
That I think there's literally three hundred million different ways to win in the US.
毫不夸张的说，美国有3亿种不同的成功方法。
That's how many people we have. Right?
和我们国家的人口数一样多，对吗？
Like...that...There is no blueprint, there is no exact way.
成功没有规划，也没有具体的方法。
It only comes down to being able to factor in the 40 or 50 indexes, input points, context points around your life.
它取决于你生活中的四五十项指标，你的投入、你身边的环境。
And then navigating through that.
通过那些指标最终找到成功。
And so...What I really want is for people to understand
所以我想让人们真正理解的是，
don't do it like me, don't do you, don't do it like Zucks, don't do it like Travis, don't do like Cuban.
不要模仿我，不要模仿你，不要模仿扎克，不要模仿特拉维斯，不要模仿库班。
Like...Spend as much time as you can.
花尽量多的时间做自己。
Steph, I'll be honest with you, maybe you know the answer, I'm actually weirdly asking you
斯蒂芬，说实话，或许你知道答案，我问你一个很奇怪的问题，
if I knew how to help people, like create more self-awareness, it's what I would sell.
如果我知道怎样去帮助别人，比如建立更多的自我意识，我就会宣扬这种观点。
I don't know if that becomes through therapy or some system, I don't know, I really don't.
我不知道是否要通过疗法或某些系统才能做到，我不知道，我真的不知道。
My fear is actually the reverse—in terms of with all the information, with all the self-help,
我的担忧是相反的。因为我们接触到的所有消息、自助方法、
with all the people on and Instagram saying these three easy steps.
Instagram上人们介绍的简单成功三步法。
The fear is we are telling people as soon as you have a job... if you have a job like, click
我的担心是我们正在告诉人们：你有工作了，就在成功列划勾，
and when you meet a man that you like, click,
你遇到喜欢的男人了，就在成功列划勾，
and then you can afford a house and you have a baby,
你能买得起房了，你有孩子了，就在成功列划勾
all of these things are the recipe for success.
所有这些都是成功的秘诀。
Well, if you're using some kind of Cosmo checklist for the recipe for success,
如果你正在使用科兹莫检查表之类的东西作为成功秘诀，
you are going to end up very unhappy because success is internal.
那么你不会成功，因为成功是内在的。
So I'll go different way. Fine.
所以我会用不同的方法。好。
But I actually think we're in a much better place than we've been in the past 60 years on this issue. Why?
但在这个问题上，我认为我们的境况要比过去60年好的多。为什么？
Because prior to this, world where we have so many more opinions and platforms,
因为以前，我们生活的世界尽管有很多的主张和平台，
we had three channels that told everybody that thing.
却只有三个频道告知我们发生的事情。
There was three old white guys that owned ABC and NBC and CBS. That's a great point.
因为三个白人老先生控制着美国广播公司(ABC)、全国广播公司(NBC)和哥伦比亚广播公司(CBS)。这个观点很好。
That completely pushed down to them what it was supposed to be.
我们接收到的信息已经完全变了样儿。。
So now at least we have a lot more voices and there's more things to navigate.
所以，现在我们至少有更多的信息，成功的方法也多了。
