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Five signs an ambivert likes you. With approximately two-thirds of the population being ambiverts,
中向人格者喜欢你的5种迹象。近2/3的人是中向人格者，
chances are you've crossed copes with your fair share throughout your life. Maybe you even fit this category.
生活中遇到他们的几率五五开。或许你就是中向人格者。
And an ambivert represents traits of both introversion and extraversion,
中向人格者代表着他们既有内向性格特征又有外向性格特征，
meaning that while they enjoy social interactions in party, they also appreciate their time alone every once in a while
这意味着他们享受社交生活，有时也喜欢自己独处。
And hey maybe you don't fit this group but you found yourself attracted to an ambivert and want to know if they return the feelings.
或许你不是中向人格者，但你却发现自己被中向人格者所吸引，想了解他们是否会回应你的感情。
Here are five signs that an ambivert likes you.
以下是中向人格者喜欢你的5种迹象。
1. They single you out at large gatherings.
1. 他们会在大型聚会中，单把你拎出来。
While ambiverts can find enjoyment from being around other people,
虽然中向人格者也能从人群的包围中找到欢乐，
they usually felt more at ease among smaller groups or having one-on-one conversations.
但小型聚会或一对一的谈话常让他们感到更加舒适。
If they've ever singled you out at a party, chances are they are interested in interacting with you in a setting where they were most comfortable.
如果他们曾将你从一场聚会中拎出来，可能他们有兴趣和你在舒适区内相互交流。
2. Spontaneously asking you to hang out.
2. 不由自主地约你出来。
Ambiverts' attitudes can change depending on whether they're on a work or school setting as opposed to a more social one.
中向人格者的态度也会改变，这取决于他们是在工作还是学校，这些和社交场合截然不同。
Because of this, you might at first think them to be very introverted,
因此，起初你或许会认为他们很内向，
only to be surprised later when they ask you to come along maybe even with a few of your friends.
当他们约你出来，或是叫上几个朋友一起出来时，你才会感到惊讶。
This is because while ambiverts need alone time, they might also find comfort in small groups in order to rest from their more solitary work environment.
这是因为，虽然中向人格者需要独处时间，但在为了从独居工作环境中抽离出来，小群体也能让他们感到舒适。
And because of the sudden bursts of extraversion, they might just work up the courage and ask you out
由于外向性格的突然爆发，他们或许会逐步激发出勇气来约你出去。
3. They seem to be hesitating around you.
3. 他们似乎在你周围犹豫不决。
If an ambivert ever seems to be fluctuating in the attitude with which approach you, this might be why.
如果一名中向人格者对待你的态度起伏不定，或许有其原因。
Think of the introverted and extroverted sides of an ambivert arguing over what's best for their social life.
中向人格者在决定如何应对社交生活时，他们脑袋里的内向面和外向面正吵着架呢。
While one side might shy away from the social interaction, their extroverted side really wants to stay and talk to you.
虽然一面可能会逃避社会互动，但他们的外向面真的很想和你待在一起和你说说话。
It's not at all that they've changed their minds about you all of a sudden,
他们并不会突然转变对你方式，
in fact, it's such an important decision for them, they can't let themselves take it lightly. This translates into their online interactions as well.
事实上，这对他们是很重要的决定，他们无法掉以轻心。这一点也适用于他们的在线互动。
4. Inconsistent interactions online.
4. 前后矛盾的在线互动。
An ambivert might stay up to talk to you until 5:00 a.m. one day and then proceed to completely disappear from social media the next.
中向人格者或许一天会和你说话到凌晨5点，另一天又完全从社交媒体上消失。
Remember an ambivert needs their alone time as much as their social time.
记住，和社交时间一样，中向人格者需要独处时间。
This behavior doesn't mean they've lost interest all of a sudden, simply that they must recharge on their own with some alone time.
这种行为并不意味着他们突然失去兴趣，这样仅仅是因为他们必须利用自己的独处时间给自己充电。
If you can wait this out, they'll appreciate your patience as well as continue interacting with you once they're fully ready to be social again.
如果你能等待，他们会感激你的耐心，一旦他们活力满满的重返社交圈，他们会继续和你互动。
5. They show you their playful side and their serious side.
5. 他们向你展现自己好玩的一面和严肃的一面。
As your relationship with an ambivert deepens, you start to discover more and more layers to their personality.
随着你和中向人格者关系的深入，你开始发现关于他们性格的更多层次。
This means they're letting you into their own little world which can be a side completely different from the one you saw when you first met them,
这意味着他们让你走进自己的小世界，这个小世界和你初次见他的那一面完全不同，
perhaps they weren't very talkative before but as you got to know them, they began to shoulder playful side.
或许之前他们一点都不健谈，但随着你对他们了解的深入，他们开始肩负更多好玩的一面。
Aside of them that, in the end, is all part of the same person and they are letting you in on all of this because they're comfortable around you.
最后，这是同一个人的所有部分，他们让你了解他们的所有，因为和你在一起让他们感到舒适。
These are some signs an ambivert might like you.
以上是中向人格者可能喜欢你的一些迹象。
Have you met someone who has shown one or more signs around you? Maybe this list has helped clear some things up.
你是否遇过这样的人，他们向你展现了以上或更多迹象？或许这个清单能帮助你弄清楚。
