If you can hold something up and put it down,
it is called weight-lifting;
if you can hold something up
but can never put it down,
it's called burden-bearing.
Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens
when they are in love.　

举得起放得下的叫举重，
举得起放不下的叫负重。
可惜，大多数人的爱情，
都是负重的。

（红色部分不被强调）

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