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Such a privilege. And I am so unhappy.
应该感到荣幸 但我一点也不快乐”
I don't think it is something that is external. I must understand myself better. And it was at that point that I decided to switch my concentration to philosophy and psychology wanting to understand the meaning of a happy life, wanting to understand how I could become happier and why I was not.
我觉得这不是外部问题 我必须更好地了解自己 于是 我转而研究哲学与心理学 希望了解快乐生活的意义 了解如何才能更快乐 为什么我不快乐
And it was very quickly that I realized, that I understood that I was engaged, or suffering from something that is so common, so pervasive and so misunderstood. Perfectionism. This is what I want to talk about today, and what I want to talk about in the next lecture. This notion of perfectionism and what the research has to say about it.
很快我意识到 我发现自己从事… 或者说遭受到某种普遍且错误的观念折磨—完美主义 这就是今天 及下节课的主题：完美主义的概念以及对完美主义的研究
Now there is no perfectionist, there is no one person who is on this extreme, nor there is a person who's on the excellence extreme which I will depict later.
人无完人 没有人会处于糟糕的极端 也没有人会处于卓越的极端 这点我等会儿会细讲
The key is how do I become happier and I become happier by being less and less perfectionistic.
关键是 如何变得更快乐 随着我渐渐脱离完美主义 我变得更快乐了
Perfectionism is not about giving up ambition. I'm as ambitious, or possibly more ambitious than I was at age of 16 or 23. It's about having a different approach toward the journey of our life, toward each step of the way-specifically, toward failure.
完美主义并不是说要放弃志向 我有志向 甚至可能比16或23岁时志向更远大 而是说对人生历程 对走出的每一步 尤其是对失败 采取一种不同的方法与态度
