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And a perfectionist understands that he needs to fail time and again,
完美主义者明白 他需要不断地失败
5 times, 10 times, sometimes 10 thousand times as we saw with Edison until they get to the point B.
五次 十次 有时候一万次 就如同我们了解的爱迪生的故事那样
As ambitious, but the schema is very different.
一样地野心勃勃 但是基模有所不同
I have to draw many failed circles before you get to that ideal circle that Vincent drew last time.
我必须画出许多不好的圆圈 在你们画出文森特上次画出的那个圆以前
And the question now becomes "so which is realistic?"
现在的问题是 哪个才更现实
Is it realistic to have that schema or is this one more realistic?
拥有这样的基模是否现实 或者说这个才比较现实
Well, I think it's pretty obvious. There is no straight line toward success.
我想这是很明显的 要达到成功可没有直线的捷径
There is no straight line toward a happy relationship.
要达成一段快乐的恋情也没有捷径
There is no straight line toward being inventing the light bulb, or being good at psychology,
要发明电灯泡也没有捷径 学好心理学也没有
or being a good parent or a good friend. We make mistakes.
想成为好的父母或者朋友也没有 我们会犯错
And "nature to be commanded must be obeyed."
而且 自然的规律我们必须遵守
Pursuing excellence is about a constraint view of nature.
追求卓越就是要克服困难
Yes, I wish that I could get from point A to point B in this way.
是啊 我也希望我能直接从A点到B点
I wish I were so. I didn't enjoy failing my generals;
我希望我能做到 我希望我不必经历失败
I didn't enjoy falling down many times and losing in squash.
我不喜欢不断地失败与打壁球输掉
I certainly don't enjoy disagreements with my wife.
我当然也不会喜欢和我妻子意见不合
However, I also would rather not have the law of gravity and be able to fly everywhere or float everywhere.
我甚至宁愿没有万有引力定律 然后我就可以到处飞或者到处飘
This is. This is a fantasy.
这是现实 而这就是幻想了
