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Okay and number five, sexual comments.
5. 性别评论。
So sexual comments are comments, such as, you know, hey, sexy, what's up or you're so hot,
这类评论包括，嗨，美女，你好么，或者你非常性感，
comments that have to talk about how the woman's body is maybe, how she looks, telling her...you know, thinks about sex.
这些评论可能是关于女人的身材、她的长相之类的。
So especially in the workplace, this is definitely something that is inappropriate and unprofessional and that you should not do.
尤其是在工作场合中，这绝对是不合适不专业的事情，你绝不该做。
It goes the same with women you don't know, maybe women you know, as well you shouldn't make these comments,
不管是你认识或不认识的女性，你都不能做出这些评论，
unless they're your girlfriend or something like that.
除非是你的女友之类的。
But in general try to stay away from sexual comments, and a side note of sexual comments is body language.
但总之还是避免这些性别评论，除了性别评论，还有肢体语言。
So when you talk to a woman, it's important to look at her face, don't spend your whole time looking at her body while you talk to her
当你在和女性交谈时，要看着她的脸部，不要一直盯着她的身体，
because the woman is going to notice and it will make her feel very uncomfortable especially in workplace situations.
因为女性是会注意到的，这会让她觉得不舒服，尤其是在工作场合。
Now in terms of sexual comments and body language,
就性别评论和肢体语言来说，
this is one of the more serious things on this list and the reason is in North America especially,
这是这份列表中最为严重的事情之一，因为尤其是在北美，
if you make these types of comments to women, you can possibly be sued for sexual harassment.
如果你对女性做出这类评论，你可能会被控性骚扰。
So it's something to definitely stay away from.
所有一定不要说这些。
Ok number six, you do that well for a girl.
6. 对女孩来说，你做的不错。
So we don't know what that is, it could be, maybe you drive well for a girl; you do math well for a girl.
不管做什么事情，可能是，女孩开车开成这样不错了；对女孩来说，你的数学不错。
The reason why this is a problem is it reinforces stereotypes.
这会造成问题因为，这么说会加强刻板印象。
So what I mean by this is by saying something like this, you drive well for a girl, it's pretty much saying girls are horrible drivers you're the exception
我想说明的是，女孩开车开成这样不错了，这句话是在表达，女生都是可怕的司机，但你是个例外，
and so a lot of women don't like to hear this because first of all it's not true and secondly a lot of women will find this offensive
很多女性不喜欢听到这样的话，因为首先，这不是事实，第二，很多女性觉得被冒犯了，
so even if you're trying to give a compliment, for most women, this is not a compliment.
即便你是想赞美她，但对大分部女性而言，这不是赞美。
Ok number seven, age. Now a lot of women especially older women, sometimes they're embarrassed about their age,
7. 年龄。有多女性，尤其是年长的女性，有时会对年龄感到尴尬，
sometimes they don't want to say how old they are. So a good idea is not to ask women especially older women how old are they.
有时她们不想说出自己的年龄。所以最好是不要问年龄，尤其是年长女性的年龄。
A lot of women will either lie or they won't want to tell you or it will make them uncomfortable.
很多女性要么会撒谎，要么不会告诉你，这会让她们感到不适。
So age is something you should avoid for most women. Although for some women, they really don't care,
对大多数女性来说，年龄是应该避免被问到的。虽然，对一些女性而言，她们真的不在乎，
it's better though to just avoid this question.
最好还是不要问。
Finally number eight, bitch, cunt, slut, whore, what are some other words, skank ho.
8. 羞辱性的词语。
Now these are words that are very insulting towards women. You know, if you listen to certain music, you might hear them, maybe on some TV shows
这些词都是对女性的侮辱。大家或许在某些歌曲、电视节目中听到它们
but these words are very very insulting and offensive to women and so first of all, never use these in a workplace situation
但这些词真的是对女性的侮辱和冒犯，所以首先，在工作中不要使用这些词语
you could get in a lot of trouble for that and even just with with women in general, they're not good words to use, so avoid using these words.
你会因此陷入很多麻烦，使用这些词并不合适，所以要避免使用这些词。
Okay. So I hope you found my list useful. So again try to avoid all of these and maybe I'll hear some more good examples in our comment section.
希望大家觉得有用。大家一定要避免以上提到的几点，或许下方评论中有更好的例子。
So if you're a woman and you've heard some sort of comments like these that you kind of offensive,
所以如何你是一名女性，你听到了让你觉得被冒犯的评论，
I hope you'll actually write a comment about it, so we can even make this list longer. So until next time, take care.
我希望你能写在评论中，为这个列表添砖加瓦。下次见，保重。
