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Hey Psych2goers and welcome back to our channel! Thank you so much for all the love you've given us.
大家好，欢迎回来，非常感谢大家给我们的爱。
Your ongoing support has helped us make psychology and mental health more accessible to everyone. Now let's continue!
大家一直以来的支持帮助我们让每个人都能更容易地学到心理学和心理健康。好的，言归正传！
Previously, we made a video discussing the signs you might be on the wrong path.
之前，我们做过一个视频，讨论了“可能走错路的迹象”。
So, today, we wanted to do the opposite and talk about the signs you are on the right path, even if it feels like you're not.
所以，今天，我们就来谈谈“走对路的迹象”，即使你感觉自己并没有走在正确的路上。
Have you ever wished someone or something could give you a hint as to what you should do for your future?
你有没有曾经希望某个人或某件事能给你一点提示，告诉你未来的路该怎么走？
What happened in 2020 has left a lot of people wondering what to do next as expectations and plans shifted and changed dramatically.
2020年发生了很多事情，每个人的预期和计划都发生了巨大的变化，大家都想知道下一步该怎么走。
During this time, you might be struggling to find your place.
在这段时间里，你可能很难找到自己的位置。
Here at Psych2Go, we know that it's very difficult to assess whether or not you are doing things right.
在Psych2Go，我们知道，评估自己做的事情是否正确是很困难的。
So, here are six unexpected signs to give you some confidence and confirmation that you are on the right path.
所以，这里有6个迹象，可以给你一些信心，帮助你确认自己是否正走在正确的道路上。
ONE. You are forming quality relationships with others.
第一，你正在与他人建立良好的关系。
Have you ever felt your problems just melt away when you're spending time with your friends?
当你和朋友在一起的时候，有没有感觉自己的问题都消失了？
We are all social beings, and we desire human connection and rely on this connection to have a rich and fulfilling life.
我们都是社会人，我们都渴望人际关系并依赖这种关系来拥有丰富而充实的生活。
Not every person you meet you'll form a healthy relationship with.
并不是你遇到的每个人都能和你建立健康的关系。
You might also encounter people who will use you and abuse you, rather than help you.
你可能还会遇到那些利用你、虐待你而不是帮助你的人。
However, if you notice that you have made very good friends who are actually helping you achieve your goals, then this is a good sign that you're on the right path.
然而，如果你注意到自己交到了真正能帮你实现目标的好朋友，那么这是一个好迹象，表明你正走在正确的道路上。
Surrounding yourself with good people who are supportive of you, help you get back on your feet, and are loyal and true will help you as you grow and change in young adulthood.
和支持你、帮助你重新站起来、忠诚并真实的好人在一起能够帮助你在年轻的成年时期成长和改变。
TWO. You feel at peace and content.
第二，你感到平静和满足。
Did you use to worry over every little decision you had to make?
你有没有为你必须做的每个小决定担心过？
Big or small, you agonized over what you had to do, and how you were going to get those things done?
你有没有在为你必须要做的事情，无论大事还是小事，以及你将如何完成这些事情而烦恼？
With growth and maturity, this type of worry fades away.
随着你不断成长并逐渐成熟，这种担忧就会消失。
You'll start to make decisions and no longer question yourself and your choices.
你会开始做决定，不再质疑自己和自己的选择。
You'll feel happy and content with yourself and the choices you make.
你会对自己和自己所做的选择感到快乐和满足。
Confidence in your maturity can make a world of difference.
成熟带来的自信会让你的世界大不相同。
If you are feeling content and at peace with what you are doing, that is a sign that says that you are on the right path.
如果你对自己正在做的事情感到满意和平静，那么就表明你走在正确的道路上。
THREE. Things are getting tough.
第三，事情变得越来越棘手。
Do you keep finding yourself in situations that spiral out of control?
你是否处于失控的状态？
Do things feel heavy and tough to get through, but you keep going anyway?
你有没有觉得事情很重很艰难，但你还得坚持下去？
As the saying goes, "After the storm, the sun will shine again."
俗话说：“雨后彩虹”
If you feel like things just keep getting worse in your life, that could be a good sign that you are on the right path.
如果你觉得自己的生活每况愈下，这可能是一个好迹象，说明你走在正确的道路上。
The most valuable life lessons come out of failure and difficult times.
最宝贵的人生经验来自失败和困难。
So, if you are currently experiencing hardship, always remember that things will get better and that you are on the right path.
所以，如果你此刻正在经历困难，要记住：一切都会变好，你正走在正确的道路上。
Just be sure to keep all the lessons that you learn along the way.
不过，你要谨记在这一过程中收获的经验教训。
FOUR. You find yourself thinking less about the past and more about the future.
第四，你发现自己对过去想得更少，对未来想得更多。
Do you look back on the past and think, "Man, those were great times?"
当你回顾过去的时候，你会不会想：“天哪，那是多么美好的时光啊？”
Although indulging in nostalgia is fun every now and then, doing this too much can have you living in the past and keep you from moving forward.
虽然偶尔沉浸在怀旧中很有趣，但过度怀旧会让你生活在过去，阻碍你前进。
But, if you are being mindful of your future, and are taking steps towards and making plans for your goals and dreams, then you are doing the right thing.
但是，如果你正关注你的未来，正为你的目标和梦想制定计划并一步步实施，那说明你正在做正确的事情。
When you are willing to move forward towards your goals instead of sheltering yourself in the past, this means that you are on the right path.
当你愿意朝着你的目标前进，而不是沉浸在过去，这说明着你走在正确的道路上。
FIVE. You're mentally satisfied, even if you're physically exhausted.
第五，即便你的身体已经疲惫不堪，但你在精神上得到了满足。
Have you ever felt that feeling of accomplishment after working hard during the day?
你有没有感受过在一天的努力工作之后的成就感？
Feeling satisfaction from what you're doing, even if this makes you physically exhausted, is a sign that you're on the right path.
从你所做的事情中感到满足，即便这会让你身体疲惫，但也表明你正走在正确的道路上。
If you are working extremely hard, and you feel that the satisfaction that you get is more valuable than the pain of constantly being physically exhausted, then you chose the right path.
如果你非常努力地工作，并且你觉得你所得到的满足比持续的身体疲惫的痛苦更有价值，那么说明你选择了正确的道路。
SIX. Everything seems to align in your favor.
第六，一切似乎都对你有利。
Have you ever experienced the feeling of having everything align for you?
你有没有觉得自己占尽了天时地利？
If you haven't, don't worry, opportunities are bound to present themselves.
如果还没有，不要担心，机会自然会出现。
But if you have, this is a good indicator you're on the right path.
但如果你有，那么这是一个很好的指示，表明你走在正确的道路上。
You will feel like you are in the right place, at the right time.
你会觉得自己正处在正确的地点、正确的时间。
You start meeting the right people and getting the opportunities that you never imagined would have presented themselves to you.
你开始遇到对的人，得到你从未想过会出现在你面前的机会。
You might even get the promotion that you never thought would come.
你甚至可能会得到自己从未想过的晋升。
Of course, you might think that this would rely a bit on luck, and yes, it does.
当然，你可能觉得还需要运气加成，是的，的确如此。
But in the end, more likely than not, things aligning in your favor are the results of your hard work.
但最终，对你有利的事情很可能是你努力工作的结果。
