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Did you know that there are different types of narcissists?
你知道自恋者有不同类型吗？
When we think of a narcissist, we think of someone who is self-absorbed and has little to no empathy for others.
当我们想到自恋者时，我们会想到一个只专注自己、对他人几乎没有同情心的人。
But that's not all narcissists.
但这并不是自恋者的全部。
In this video we will cover four different types of narcissists.
在这段视频中，我们将介绍四种不同类型的自恋者。
This video is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice.
此视频仅用于教育目的，不能替代专业建议。
With that said, here are some different types of narcissists.
我们继续，以下是一些不同类型的自恋者。
Number one, the grandiose narcissist.
第一，浮夸型自恋者。
Have you ever encountered a person who is charming, self-absorbed, entitled, aggressive, and authoritarian.
你有没有遇到过一个人，这个人魅力四射、自以为是、有优越感、威权专制。
You feel that they are overly callous, aggressive, and think highly of themselves without trying to put themselves in other people's shoes.
你会觉得这类人过于冷酷无情，咄咄逼人，自视甚高，不会试着设身处地地为他人着想。
They're also argumentative and wanna win in every altercation or in a slight misunderstanding.
他们也爱争辩，希望在每一次争吵或小小的误会中获胜。
They are classified as grandiose narcissists.
他们被归类为浮夸的自恋者。
They portray the classical presentation of narcissistic personality disorder according to the criteria listed in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, DSM.
根据《精神疾病诊断与统计手册》列出的标准，他们描绘了自恋型人格障碍的经典表现。
They often seek validation from outward sources.
他们经常寻求从外部来源获得认可。
When they are in a romantic relationship, grandiose narcissists try to obtain power by game playing.
当他们处于恋爱关系中时，浮夸的自恋者试图通过玩游戏来获得权力。
As parents they view their children as a narcissistic supply or an extension of themselves in order to obtain validation from other people.
作为父母，他们认为自己的孩子是自恋的补给，或者是自己的延伸，以获得他人的认可。
A grandiose narcissist is extroverted and displays overt expressions of superiority and entitlement.
浮夸的自恋者性格外向，公开表现出优越感和权利。
Number two, the vulnerable narcissist.
第二，脆弱型自恋者。
The vulnerable narcissist is a person who appears unapproachable, unfriendly or cold, negative and unassertive.
脆弱的自恋者是一个看起来难以接近、不友好或冷酷、消极和不自信的人。
A person who is both high in neuroticism and self-centered will likely worry about their perceived superior status.
一个既神经质又以自我为中心的人很可能会担心自己被认为的优越地位。
They thrive on attention and accolades.
他们以关注和赞美为乐。
They tend to give hints at how hard they've been working or how much they've achieved.
他们往往会暗示自己工作有多努力或取得了多大成就。
Yet, look puzzled, and perhaps even become astonished when they receive acknowledgement for their hard work or significant achievements.
然而，当他们得到对他们努力工作或重大成就的认可时，他们看起来很困惑，甚至会感到惊讶。
They have a self image that is divided into a positive self image with excessive pride, and a negative self image that is filled with shame.
他们的自我形象分为过度骄傲的积极自我形象和充满羞耻的消极自我形象。
When they receive constructive criticism and gentle feedback they become high hyper sensitive.
当他们收到建设性的批评和温和的反馈时，他们会变得高度敏感。
Receiving only positive feedback gives them the ability to bury the negative shame-filled self image.
只接受积极的反馈会让他们有能力隐藏充满羞耻的消极自我形象。
When these individuals receive feedback they perceive them as an attack on their character, and this activates powerful feelings of self disgust and self blame and unavoidable shame.
当这些人收到反馈时，他们会认为这是对他们性格的攻击，这会激起强烈的自我厌恶、自我责备和不可避免的羞耻感。
Vulnerable narcissists also blame other people and circumstance for their mistakes.
脆弱的自恋者也会将自己的错误归咎于他人和环境。
They rarely accept responsibility for their actions.
他们很少为自己的行为承担责任。
Number three, the communal narcissist.
第三，群体型自恋者。
Have you ever encountered a person that was kind on the surface but they're mean once you got to know them?
你有没有遇到过一个人，表面上很和善，但一旦你了解了，才发现这个人很刻薄？
If you have, then perhaps you're actually dealing with a communal narcissist.
如果你遇到过，那么也许你实际上是在和一个群体型自恋者打交道。
On the surface a communal narcissist emphasizes warmth, agreeableness and relatedness.
表面上，群体型自恋者热情友好、随和亲切。
They wanna uphold an image of the most trustworthy and supportive person by the public.
他们想要树立公众最值得信赖和支持的形象。
They try to gain this by portraying an image of friendliness and kindness.
他们试图通过描绘友好和善良的形象来获得这一点。
It's not wrong to actually be kind and friendly towards others.
实际上，对他人友善并不是错误的。
However, the key point here is the communal narcissist's motives are grandiosity, esteem, entitlement, and power.
然而，这里关键的一点是，群体型自恋者的动机是显得伟大、获得尊重、特权和其他权力。
And number four, the malignant narcissist.
第四，恶毒型自恋者。
Narcissism exists on a spectrum. And at the extreme end lies the malignant narcissist.
存在不同程度的自恋者。而处于极端位置的是恶毒的自恋者。
This kind of narcissist is paranoid, immoral, cruel, aggressive, and sadistic.
这种自恋者偏执残忍、不讲道德、咄咄逼人、虐待成性。
By creating chaos and taking people down, they feel pleasure.
通过制造混乱和打击别人，他们会感到快乐。
They may not be necessarily grandiose, extroverted, or neurotic, but the characteristics that this kind of narcissist has are closely associated with psychopathy, the dark triad and antisocial personality disorder.
他们可能并不一定是浮夸的、外向的或神经质的，但这种自恋者的特征与精神变态、黑暗三性格和反社会人格障碍密切相关。
With the rise of social media we also find the simultaneous rise of the label narcissist.
随着社交媒体的兴起，我们也发现自恋者这个标签也在兴起。
It is turned into a buzzword, therefore refrain from labeling as it can actually be demonizing.
它变成了一个流行语，因此不要随意贴标签，因为它实际上可能被妖魔化了。
Of course when a truly narcissistic person receives an accurate diagnosis from a licensed professional, it will actually be helpful as it shes light on their symptoms and gives 'em an opportunity to access a community of similar people.
当然，当一个真正的自恋者从有执照的专业人士那里得到准确的诊断时，这实际上是有帮助的，因为它揭示了他们的症状，并让他们有机会接触到相似的群体。
So that they're on the road to recovery.
这样他们才能走上恢复之路。
Also remember narcissism exists on a spectrum and some of us may have that narcissistic trait in us.
还要记住，自恋的程度各不相同、有轻有重，我们中的一些人可能也有这种自恋的特质。
And that's actually all right.
这实际上是没有问题的。
The most important point here is to be self-aware and to have the drive to change yourself for the better.
这里最重要的一点是要有自我意识，并有动力去改变自己，让自己变得更好。
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