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讨喜法

Sincere Compliments and Plentiful Praise.

真诚的赞美和各种称赞。

As noted again by the famous self-improvement expert Dale Carnegie, individuals crave authentic appreciation.

著名的自我提高方面的专家戴尔·卡内基再次表明每个人都渴望真诚的欣赏。

This is very different from empty flattery, which most people are adept at detecting.

这和空洞的奉承有很大区别，大部分人都容易发觉。

No one likes a brown-nose, and most people don't particularly love being pandered to.

谁都不喜欢拍马屁，大部分人尤其不喜欢被人迎合。

What people really want is sincere appreciation — to be recognized and appreciated for their efforts.

人们真正想要的是真诚的欣赏——他们的努力被认可被赞赏。

【知识点讲解】

flattery n.谄媚；阿谀；巴结

例句：

I find his flattery odious.

我觉得他的谀词十分讨厌。

His letter was dripping with flattery.

他的信中充满阿谀之词。

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