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那些不利于恋情的坏习惯

Checking their phone

检查对方的手机

"In the world of online relationships, more and more people are obsessively checking their partners' history, messages, and social media posts," Lewis says.

"在网络恋情的世界中，越来越多的人痴迷于检查另一半的历史聊天记录、短信和社交状态，"刘易斯说道。

"Unfortunately this is a double-edged sword." If you find something that looks suspicious, it's almost impossible to raise it with your partner - this means you need to reveal your snooping.

"不幸的是，这种行为有利有弊。"如果你发现了一些猫腻，你几乎不会直接问你的对象--因为这意味着你要向他坦白你偷看他的手机了。

"You also usually don't have all the context, so it's easy to misinterpret what you're seeing. And if you find nothing, often you assume they're just being extra secretive, and the cycle continues," she says. "If you're having difficulty trusting your partner it's best to talk to them and work out strategies together to address this concern."

"通常你看到的东西没有上下文，因此很容易产生误解。如果你什么都没发现，你就会假设他们十分谨慎，以此类推，循环往复，"她说道。"如果你很难相信自己的对象，那最好的方法就是和他们聊聊，并一起找出解决方法。"

【知识点讲解】

work out v. 做出；可以解决；设计出；计算出；锻炼；开采完；精疲力尽；发展，发挥

例句：

I believe that you can work out this problem by yourself.

我相信你自己能做出这道题的。

We can find a way to work out this problem.

我们可以找到解决这个问题的方法。

The police worked out a plan to catch the thief.

警察制定出了策略捉贼。

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