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Helping a friend get through the problem

帮助朋友自己解决问题

Give advice when necessary

在需要时提供意见

Sometimes friends may not be able to think of a solution and really want and need to hear your plan. At this point, you can give advice. However, don't just give general advice or reduce the severity of the problem, but help you find the best possible solution.

有时候朋友们可能想不出解决的办法，但他们真的很想听听你的计划。在这时候，你可以提出建议。但是，不要只是给出一般性的建议或减轻问题的严重性，而是要帮助您找到可能的最佳解决方案。

You give them specific advice, analyze them the good and the bad in that plan. They may follow your advice, or they may not. And let them know that no matter what decision they make, you will always be there.

你给他们具体的建议，分析计划中好的和坏的方面。他们可能会听从你的建议，也可能不会。让他们知道，无论他们做了什么决定，你都会一直陪在他们身边。

Becoming a good friend is about letting your friend choose and be responsible for their own solutions. This way they can become stronger, more discerning, and more self-reliant. Advice is in many cases necessary, however, you and the friend are not the same so handling your way is not always appropriate. The support of helping a friend get through the problem on their own, not relying on you or anyone else!

成为好朋友就是让你的朋友选择并为他们自己的解决方案负责。这样他们可以变得更强大，更有眼光，更自立。建议在很多情况下是必要的，然而，你和你的朋友不一样，所以你的处理方式并不总是合适的。帮助一个朋友自己解决问题，而不是依靠你或其他任何人!

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