6. Avoid the temptation to be controlling. 忘却完全控制对方的邪念。

People have free will and no one can or should control another person. As long as you are both interested in being in the relationship, you will stick with it and distance will not make a difference.

人生来平等，没有人可以或是应该被其他的人控制。既然你们决定选择这段异地恋情，就要接受这个事实，何况这和异地也没有必然的联系。

As soon as one of you decides the other is not a good match--or someone else is a better match--your relationship ends, whether you live 3000 miles apart, two streets over, or share the same bed with your wedding picture on the wall. You are going to have to trust each other completely if this relationship is going to work.
如果一方觉得和另一方不是很合得来，或是一方有了更好的对象，那么不论你们是相隔3000英尺还是两条大街，再或是睡一张床上而墙面上还挂着你们的婚纱照，你们的关系都玩完了。而只要你们的关系还在继续，那就要完全地相信对方。