4. Say What You Want.
If you are asking for something or recommending a change, just say it. Don’t say “I think” or “in my opinion” as that’s a statement, not a request. A man will interpret this as “being up to him” since you just stated an opinion and didn’t actually ask.
Also avoid using the word “but”. If you state something and qualify it with a big “but”, you just reduced its importance.
想说什么说什么。如果你想借一件东西或者提一个建议,不要吞吞吐吐,直接说出来。