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2. In Everything, Give Thanks
Say “Thank You” and make an effort to regularly demonstrate your genuine gratefulness for all your partner does for you. There are going to be times when this will seem an impossible chore. Perhaps you’ll be furious with your partner over something or other and they’ll point out something they did, hoping for praise. How will you respond? Will you offer your praise and thanks then deal with your anger separately? Or will you close up like a shell and torture your partner with inconsolable silence?
You care about making your relationship work so I expect you’ll swallow your momentary pride and say thank you. After all, your partner deserves at least the same courtesy you’d give to a complete stranger. When you cannot be gracious, be polite. Make a habit of offering thanks to your partner, even for the tiniest of things, and a sapling of thankfulness will grow into something strong enough to support you both.
2. 对每件事，表示感谢
说“谢谢”并努力经常地表露你真诚地感谢情人为你做的所有。需要时间来讲这些变成一种不烦闷的事。也许你会因为某事对你的情人或其他人暴怒，他们会指出他们做了的某事，希望被赞扬。你会如何反应？你会表示你的赞赏和感谢然后独自处理你愤怒的情绪？或者你会像个贝壳那样关闭自己用极度沮丧的沉默折磨你的情人？
你担心你的感情生活所以我希望你能收起你短暂的骄傲然后表达出感谢。毕竟，你的爱人应该得到至少你对一个完全陌生人表达出的礼貌。当你无法做到亲切时，至少保持礼貌。养成对爱人表达感谢的习惯，即使对最微小的事，一句感谢的幼苗会成长为强壮地足够支持你们两人的大树。
