After you’ve used that technique, then you just might have a bit of general chit-chat. A bit of fluff talk, like ‘How have you been?’ ‘What have you been up to?’ She may be at work, just get some general details. And then just simply lead the conversation using topics you’ve already spoken about. So, it’s basically your job,when you’re interacting, to get those details, to find out some things about her, you should be taking an active interest in any girl you speak to, even if you’re actually not interested in catching up with her. Just get in the habit of taking an interest in her. In people in general, but especially women. And as you get better at that, naturally things will tend to fall in place,especially for those critical points when you’re actually out standing in front of a girl that you’re really attracted to and you would love to get her phone number. And follow up with a date. It’s like all those other interactions are practice for that key point, when there’s a girl in front of you that you really like. I cannot stress how important that is. Otherwise, if you haven’t had all those interactions prior, and you get the girl that you really like sitting in front of you, and you’ve had zero practice, chances are it’s not gonna happen.

你采用了“揣测谁的来电”技巧之后，你也许会要话一下家常，闲谈一下，比如“最近过得怎么样”“你最近在做么”之类的。她或许在工作，那就获取一些一般的细节信息，然后只需用你们已经谈论过的话题继续聊下去就行了。嗯，在交流时，获取这些细节信息以及了解她的一些事情基本上是你的任务，你应该以一种充满兴趣的情绪和与你聊天的任何女生谈话，就算你其实没有兴趣知道她的近况也应如此。你要养成习惯，表现得对她感兴趣——对所有人感兴趣，尤其是女性。一旦你在这方面有了进展，好事自然而然地就会降临了，尤其是在那些关键场合的时候——你真的站在了你非常喜欢的那个女孩面前，而且你非常想拿到她的电话号码的时候。然后再定个约会。那个你喜欢的女孩站在你面前的时候是关键时刻，而那些其他的交流就像是这个关键时刻的预演。我无法强调这种预演有多么重要。可是，如果你事先没有这种交流，就算你非常喜欢的那个女生就坐在你面前，如果你没有任何经验，你追到她的机率也是零。