2. Look inviting and approachable. You might not realize it when you send a "leave me alone" message, so read up on How to Look Approachable. Uncross your arms, keep your hands away from your face, make eye contact, and smile! Similarly, read his or her body language - is this person into you? Or does this person seem uncomfortable?

看起来要亲切。当你发出“别理我”的信号的时候，你可能都没有意识到，所以要仔细研修如何让你的看起来很有亲和力。不要交叉环抱你的双手，不要用你的手摸你的脸，让眼神交汇，微笑！同样的，读懂他或她的肢体语言——这个人对你有意思吗？或者这个人看起来很不安？