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We’ve all gone through hard times. And we all get through them. However, some get through them better than others. So what is their secret? Most of it has to do with attitude. Here are 13 things to remember when life gets rough:
我们都有过灰暗的日子，最后也都熬过来了。然而有些的人心态会比其他人要好，他们的秘诀是什么？其实主要就是取决于你的态度罢了。看看生活艰难时可以做的13件事吧。
1. What is, is
坦然接受现实
Buddha’s famous saying tells us: “It is your resistance to ‘what is’ that causes your suffering.” Think about that for a minute. It means that our suffering only occurs when we resist how things are. If you can change something, then take action! Change it! But if you can’t change it, then you have two choices: (1) either accept it and let go of the negativity, or (2) make yourself miserable by obsessing over it.
佛教有句经典的话：“你的痛苦都源于对现实的抗拒。”好好想想这句话。这意味着只有当你不接受现实时才会产生痛苦。如果你能改变什么，那就开始行动吧，改变它！但如果无法改变，你就有两个选择，（1）要不去接受要不就忽视消极的部分，或者（2）不断的折磨自己让自己更加痛苦
