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Their body language indicates that they want more.
他们的肢体语言表明，他们想要的可不止这些。
According to a study published in the Psychological Bulletin, lead author R Matthew Montoya found that behaviors like leaning, smiling, and maintaining eye contact were indicators of attraction in nearly every culture around the globe.
据《心理学公报》（Psychological Bulletin）期刊发表的一项研究表示，首席作者R Matthew Montoya发现：倾斜、微笑和眼神交流等行为是欣赏对方的迹象，全球通用（不论文化）。
Hugging is another indication of your friend wanting more, especially if a warm embrace lingers on a second longer than a quick, perfunctory hello. Professional physiotherapist Kuraj said hugging is a therapeutic gesture that "increases production of a hormone called oxytocin." Oxytocin is a hormone responsible for feelings of trust, comfort, and affection. If your friend wraps you in a hug that makes your heart skip a beat, chances are they are feeling that same rush of warmth.
拥抱也表明，你的朋友想要的还有更多，尤其是你们热情相拥，时间超过一秒时（不是那种敷衍式的打招呼）。专业物理治疗师Kuraj说，拥抱是一种治疗行为，"会增加催产素的分泌。"催产素是一种关乎信任、舒适和喜爱的激素。如果朋友抱着你的时候让你的心跳漏了一拍，那他/她也很有可能有同样的感受。
They seek you out in group situations.
团体聚会的时候，他们会找你。
If you and your friend are part of a larger friend circle, pay attention to how often they gravitate towards you in group situations. Even if you are doing separate things or having conversations with other people, their physical closeness is evidence that they like you as more than a friend. This need to be close to you expresses their comfort towards you in shared spaces and indicates that they subconsciously want to be closer to you in emotional ways as well.
如果你和你的朋友有更大的社交圈子，那就注意他/她在团体聚会时找你的频率。即使你们做着不同的事情，或与不同的人进行交谈，他们也更想贴近你，这就表明他们对你的喜欢可能不只是朋友这么简单哦。想要与你亲近表明了他们与你呆在共享空间内的舒适感，也说明他们会下意识地想在情感上与你靠近。
Nonverbal behaviors-such as seeking you out in a crowd and eliminating physical barriers in group settings-indicate the person you like wants "to interact with you, which gives you an opportunity to develop your relationship under favorable conditions," Jack Schafer Ph.D. wrote for Psychology Today.
非语言行为--比如在人群中找你以及清除群体环境中的物理障碍--表明这个人想"与你互动，让你在有利的条件下有机会与他/她发展恋情，"Jack Schafer博士为《今日心理学》写道。
They take an interest in things you like.
他们对你喜欢的事物很感兴趣。
According to psychologist Elinor Greenberg's book "Borderline, Narcissistic, and Schizoid Adaptations: The Pursuit of Love, Admiration, and Safety," your friend taking an active interest in your hobbies, skills, and ambitions is a clear sign that they foster feelings for you. More than that, this interest indicates that they would make a great partner in a potential relationship.
心理学家埃莉诺·格林伯格的著作《边缘、自恋和精神分裂适应：追寻爱情、爱慕和安全》（Borderline, Narcissistic, and Schizoid Adaptations: The Pursuit of Love, Admiration, and Safety）表示：若朋友对你的爱好、技能或野心感兴趣，这明确表明他们对你动了心。更重要的是，这种兴趣表明如果你和他/她谈恋爱，他/她会是一个很棒的伴侣。
"One of the signs that your date is likely to make a good mate is [if] he or she shows genuine interest in your life and listens attentively when you are speaking," wrote Greenberg.
"约会对象是绝佳伴侣的迹象之一：他/她是否对你的生活真正感兴趣；当你说话的时候，他/她有没有认真在听，"格林伯格写道。
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