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1) You feel like you've been together for longer than you actually have
1) 你觉得你们在一起的时间比实际在一起的时间更久
Some people have a timeline for when they want to get engaged. They figure that if they are with someone for one year or two years, then that's a logical time for their boyfriend to pop the question. That doesn't have to be the case. It's completely plausible that you would know that you want to marry someone in under a year. Even if you and your significant other have only been together for six or eight months, if he proposes, there's no reason why this isn't a great decision for your future together.
有些人心中有一个关于订婚的时间表。她们觉得，如果和男朋友在一起一年或两年，那这个时候男朋友向她求婚就非常合适。但并非都是如此。如果你想一年内就结婚，这也是完全可行的。即使你和另一半才在一起6或8个月，如果他求婚了，这无疑也是一个有关美好未来的重大决定。
How do you know that you're ready to marry him? One way to tell is if you feel like you've been together for longer than you actually have. When two months feels like two years because you two are so in sync and so in love, wedding bells are absolutely in your future. This is a good sign that you two are meant to be. You're so comfortable with each other and can't imagine life without each other.
你怎么知道自己已经准备好嫁给他了呢？一种说法是，如果你觉得自己和他在一起的时间比你们实际在一起的时间更久，那就是时候了。如果你们俩非常和谐、超爱彼此，感觉两个月就像两年一般，那你们注定会结婚。这是你们俩天生一对的好兆头。在一起的时候，你们都很舒服，无法想象没有他/她的生活。
2) You can talk about anything
2) 你们可以聊任何事
Conversation is a huge part of a good relationship. Sure, you might want to gossip and chat about certain subjects with your best friends instead of your boyfriend, and he might want to talk about sports or music or whatever interests him with his own friends. Your boyfriend might not care as much about that lipstick you just bought as your BFF would.
对话是美好感情的重要组成部分。当然，你可以和闺蜜而非男友八卦，聊一些特定话题，而他可能想和好哥儿们聊聊体育、音乐或其它兴趣。男朋友对你新买的口红的关注度可能并没有闺蜜对口红的关注度高。
But you want to be able to talk about anything with your boyfriend. That's another good reason that you should marry him and it's another good way to be confident that this is the right choice.
但最好的状态就是，你可以和他聊任何事。这是你应该嫁给他的另一个理由，也是检验自己是否嫁对人的另一种方式。
3) You're on the same page about your future
3) 你们对未来的想法一致
If you and your boyfriend are on the same page about your future, then that's a good sign that you should get married. This will make things a lot easier when you're planning your lives together and talking about these important topics and making these huge decisions.
如果你和男友对未来有着一致的想法，那这也是你应该嫁给他的另一个好征兆。当你们计划一起生活、谈论重要话题、做出重大决定时，观点一致能省很多事。
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