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Seven subtle signs a shy girl likes you. Not everyone is as confident or outgoing as Elle Woods from Legally Blonde.
害羞的女孩喜欢你的7种细微迹象。并不是每个人都像《律政俏佳人》里的Elle Woods那样自信开朗。
Instead of wearing bold bright pink every day, some girls might shy away from that and will be more muted tones.
有些女孩并不会像她一样金色头发粉色套装，她们会更加的柔和内敛。
For a shy person, common struggles they face are public speaking, going to parties and of course, confessing their feelings to someone they like.
对于害羞的人而言，她们面临的窘境有公众演讲、参加聚会，当然还有向喜欢的人表白。
Are you wondering if you're shy co-worker, a friend or classmate likes you?
你是不是在想，那个害羞的同事、朋友或同学是不是喜欢你呢？
Here are seven signs a shy girl likes you.
以下是害羞的女孩喜欢你的7种迹象。
1. She fidgets and adjusts her clothes.
1. 她坐立不安，一直整理她的衣服。
Girls want to look good in front of their crush,
女孩们都想在喜欢的人面前光彩熠熠，
so if you find her smoothing her skirt or combing her fingers through her hair,
所以如果你发现她在整理她的衣服或是用手指梳理头发，
know that she's making an effort to look attractive for you.
那么你要知道她在努力吸引你。
If you find her fidgeting with her fingers, too, it means she's nervous around you.
如果你还发现她在摆弄手指，那么这意味着她在你旁边紧张不安。
Help her relax and show her it's okay to be silly with you.
帮助她放松下来，用行动表明，在你身边，傻一点也没关系。
2. She finds small excuses to be around you.
2. 她会找一些小借口待在你身边。
A shy girl will rarely ever outwardly ask you out on a date.
害羞的女孩很少会勇敢地约你出去。
What she'll do instead is find small open windows at your schedule just to be around you.
她会寻找时机，只为待在你周围。
What it means hanging out at a group setting or knowing when you'll be at the library or coffee shop,
她们知道你什么时候去图书馆或是咖啡厅，
she'll make sure to show up at your favorite spots. A shy girl wants to be noticed, too.
她们会确保自己出现在你喜欢的地方。害羞的女孩也希望得到关注。
3. She looks away at first.
3. 首先她会转移目光。
Strong eye contact is usually a good sign someone's into you, but shy girls often have a hard time with this one.
强烈的眼神交流通常是一个人喜欢你的迹象，但是害羞的女生却很难做到。
When you talk to her, take note on how quickly she looks away from you.
当你和她讲话时，注意她们眼神逃离的频率。
If you notice that she does this frequently is because she's nervous around you.
如果你注意到她总是躲避眼神，这是因为她在你身边很紧张。
Eventually though shy girls want to boost their confidence,
害羞的女孩希望助长自己的自信，
so the more you talk to her, the better she'll be at holding her game.
所以你和她说的越多，她们就越有把握。
4. She eavesdrops on you.
4. 她会偷偷听你讲话。
When a girl likes you, she'll want to know every little detail about you.
当一个女孩喜欢你的时候，她想知道关于你的每一个细节。
She might not be the best at asking questions to you
她或许并不擅长问你问题
so watch out, she'll be sleuthing in the background.
所以要注意啦，她会在背景中侦查。
If you catch her leaning in, as you talk to others or notice that she's asking your friends about you,
如果被你发现她倚着墙角偷听你和别人讲话，或是发现她向朋友询问你的情况，
chances are she's collecting information to make a good impression. Pretty cute, right?
那么她很可能是在收集关于你的信息为了给你留下好印象。是不是很可爱？
5. She laughs at your jokes.
5. 因你的笑话而大笑。
A girl whether she's shy or not will often laugh at a guy's joke when she's into him.
一个女孩，不论害羞与否，喜欢你时，你的每个笑话都很好笑。
Consider it a shy girl subtle way of flirting with you.
这算是害羞的女孩和你调情的一种方式。
Even if you weren't being intentionally funny and she suddenly laughs at what you said,
即使你说的话并不是为了搞笑，她还是会笑，
this is a clear indicator that she's into you. People tend to find others funny when they find them attractive.
这就表明她喜欢你。被对方吸引时，人们总会觉得他们很有趣。
6. She interacts with every guy but you.
6. 她和每个人互动，除了你。
You might think she's avoiding you because she doesn't like you or finds you annoying.
你或许会认为她在躲你，因为她不喜欢你或是觉得你很烦。
But this is actually not the case at all.
但是事实并非如此。
When a shy girl is into you she'll feel nervous and awkward being around.
当一个害羞的女孩喜欢你的时候，在你身边，她会紧张、尴尬。
If you catch her comfortable and at ease around other guys,
如果你发现她在其他人身边舒适且放松，
she could either be trying to make you jealous or has no idea how to act towards you.
她要么是为了让你吃醋，要么是不知道怎么和你相处。
Don't be discouraged by her flightiness, instead approach her confidently and see how she behaves.
不要被她的轻浮而失去勇气，你要自信地走近她，看她们的一举一动。
If she acts strange or blushes, then this is a clear sign she likes you.
如果她表现的很奇怪或是脸红，那么她肯定喜欢你。
7. She's more interactive with you online.
7. 她在网上和你聊天的时候更加积极。
Shy girls might not be as talkative in person because they were worried about saying something weird or unsure what to talk about.
害羞的女孩子或许本人没那么健谈，因为她们担心自己说错话或是不知道该说什么。
So if you've received lengthy text messages or notice that she's putting effort in to keep the conversation going,
所以如果你收到她的长短信或是注意到她在努力接话题，
then it's a sure sign she's into you.
那么她一定喜欢你。
Don't worry too much of all the times she takes to respond,
不要因为她回信息的时间太长而担心，
if she's quick, then it's a strong giveaway.
如果她回得很快，固然是好。
But if she takes her time know that it's also possible she could be playing her together or you know she could be busy, too.
但是如果她回的慢，那么你要知道她或许也是在忙呀。
But hey it makes it all the more obvious she's taking time to get back to you.
但是，这一切不是很明显了么，她在花精力回复你。
Do you think a shy girl likes you? Please share your thoughts with us below.
你觉得那个害羞的女孩喜欢你？请在下方与我们分享。
Remember shy girls have a hard time being forward,
记住，害羞的女孩子难以迈开那一步，
so maybe it's time you make a move and ask her out already. She'll be relieved you did it first.
所以或许是时候该你上前一步约她出来了。如果你先做了这一步，她会如释重负。
For more helpful information, please check out our video Five Ways Women Fall in Love.
更多有用信息，请观看我们的视频《女性陷入爱河的5种方式》。
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