4. Why do you always . . . Focusing on your spouse's weakness rather than building on their strengths will only increase their weakness and diminish their strength. This habit can send a relationship into a downward spiral if weaknesses are pointed out and commented upon. Success does breed success. Stick with the strengths and don't focus on weakness.
4.你怎么老是。。。?总盯着你爱人的缺点,而不是放大TA的优点,只会让TA的优点更少缺点更多。指出并批评爱人的缺点,这一毛病会让你们的感情每况愈下。成功孕育成功。多注意对方的优点,不要总盯着缺点。