4. Things are moving too fast- We've all been in a situation where a new relationship suddenly starts taking off at lightning speed. He wants to move in, he talks to your girlfriends about engagement rings, and he's already brainstorming the names of your unborn children. If this pace is making you feel like you've aged ten years in the span of two months, we suggest having a little chat with your significant other. It's completely appropriate to stand your ground and tell him to slow things down.
决不妥协四：进展过快。你们的进展速度飞快，他甚至开始想你们结婚，生孩子，甚至孩子的名字的事情，这个时候你有必要告诉他自己还没准备好，希望能够慢慢来。