Even worse than keeping secrets is to bald-face lie to someone in your life. On the soap opera I watch, the characters feel no shame telling whoppers to each other to get what they want. The lies build one on top of the next, until the next thing you know. Who wants a situation to come to that? It's better to tell the truth right from the start.
比不告诉恋人秘密更糟糕的是跟你身边的人撒谎。在我看的电视剧中,有些角色为了迎合对方的喜好可以撒出一些迷天大谎来。然后又要用一个又一个谎言来弥补这个谎言,直到被发现真相。谁会想陷入这种窘境?所以还不如从一开始就不要撒谎。