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5) What’s Said: “Tone it down a notch.”
What’s Heard: You ask too many questions. You’re too intimidating. You’re overly opinionated. You’re too consumed with work.
“This is interpreted by single women to mean that they have to dial down their core identity a notch in order to attract potential suitors and make them feel comfortable,” says Anderson.
“Suggesting that a woman reduce the fullness of who she is to lure a mate will lead to an inauthentic connection, and is a recipe for a disastrous relationship or marriage. Because really, how long can any person fake it and maintain a facade?”
说者：要求低一点
听者：我问的问题太多了，我的要求太高了。我放下身段就可以吸引异性，让他们对我有好感。
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