5. Help them succeed.

If you do have some success converting some of the important people in your life to your way of thinking, at least to a minor degree, don’t criticize when they don’t do it as well as you’d like, or to the extent you’d like. Instead, be encouraging, be happy for them, and support them in any way you can. Again, make it a team effort.
5.帮助他人成功。

如果在你生命中一些重要的人，确实成功地被你的思考方式，至少是较小程度上的改变，如果他们没有按照你想的那么做，也不要去批评。相反，你应该鼓励他们，为他们感到高兴，只要你能办到，无论怎样都要支持他们。另外，使其成为一个团队的付出。