1.bridge over the "troubled water 兵来将挡，水来土掩

例句：Then we should really bridge over the "troubled water". That's what they say in English. But most of us fail the test, to ourselves, not to our partners.

更应该如俗话所说的“兵来将挡，水来土掩”，想办法克服困难。

2.check up on 检查

例句：So we should check up on this to our family members or whomever that is beloved and dear to us.
背弃了内在真正高贵的你，所以我们应该检查自己对家人或任何我们所钟爱的人的关系。

3. turn one's backs 背弃

例句：Most of the time in critical situations, we just turn our backs and that is no good.
通常在关键的时刻我们反而背弃他们，这样很不好。

4.in mental suffering 精神煎熬

例句：At that time, she or he is in mental suffering.
不过这是因为他（她）正处在不同的状况，精神正受煎熬。