stand to 准备行动; 不放弃…
Being able to code in your sleep won't help if people can't stand to work with you.
如果人们无法忍受与你共事的话，哪怕你在睡梦里都能编程也无济于事。
I know you can’t stand to be in the same room as me, so I just thought I’d try and apologize over the phone.
我知道你是不愿意和我一起住了,但我还是想在电话里给你道歉。

apologize 道歉，认错; 辩解
Don't apologize for your shortcomings.
不要为你的不足道歉。
Apologize if you were wrong.
如果你错了，记得道歉。