9 Learn to appreciate yourself. Everyone has strengths, weaknesses, habits, and principles that define who you are and can make you distinctive. Spend more time focusing on the qualities about yourself that you like and less on the ones that you dislike. You can better accomplish this by taking up hobbies and projects that you can do that will make use of your strengths. Additionally, by starting on some projects that emphasize your good traits, it will keep you busy so you will end up spending less time thinking about your weaknesses.
试着欣赏自己。每个人都有自己的长处和短处，自己的习惯和原则，这些就是你区别于他人的地方。所以，多一些时间去挖掘与欣赏你自己的特质，而不要去寻找别人的短处。