9. Become wise. 让自己明智起来。

　　You are highly intuitive, so work on deepening your ability to trust your intuition. Keep learning and growing. In the long run, your wisdom will become one of your greatest assets, both as a way to meet your own needs and to help others. (Many women placed a very high value on developing their wisdom。)

　　你直觉很好，所以应该深化这种能力，相信自己的直觉。保持学习和成长。从长远来看，你的智慧会成为自己最大的资产之一，这对于满足自己的要求和帮助别人都是如此。(许多女性把增强智慧看得很重。)

　　Being a man or woman isn't about blindly following popular gender patterns, nor is it about rejecting such patterns out of hand and rebelliously embracing their opposites. Ultimately you must define what kind of man or woman you will become. This is a choice you must make for yourself as an individual, regardless of what anyone else thinks. What kind of man/woman do you wish to be? Life awaits your answer…..。

　　做一名男性或者女性并不是盲目地去遵从流行的性别模式，也不是全盘否定这些模式而叛逆地反其道而行。从根本上说，你必须决定自己希望成为什么样的男人或女人。无论他人怎样想，作为一个个体，你必须为自己做出选择。你希望成为什么样的男人/女人？生活等待着你的答案……

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