4. Be polite--Please, thank you, you are welcome… these are not only meant for strangers; your own spouse and family should come first and you must always use these phrases inside your home.

多用礼貌用语。请、谢谢、不客气这些话不只要说给陌生人听，更要说给你的伴侣和家人听。在家里要记得多用这些客气话。

5. Be gentle--a person is supposed to be the closest to his/her spouse, being gentle is crucial to keep them close enough.

温柔一些——若想关系亲密，温柔是至关重要的。

6. Give gifts--nice small gifts are appreciated every once in a while.

给对方送礼物——偶尔送些甜蜜小礼物，就能令对方感激不尽。