5.SHARE MORE ABOUT YOURSELF

5.更多地展现自己

Kids, at least the very social ones, will often say, "hey look what I can do." Even if all they're doing is sticking out their tongue. And hey, people look. The point is, these kids get noticed. They don't fade into the background. This can be a problem for adults, especially us introverts. We enjoy our privacy more than most. The thing is, just like those outgoing kids, you’ll get noticed and often liked more when you speak up and let others get to know you. The good news is, you don't have to have verbal diarrhea to do this. Just reveal little tidbits about yourself throughout a conversation.

小孩，算得上是很有交际能力的，他们会经常说：“嘿看看我能做什么。”即使他们所做的只是吐吐舌头。但注意，人们就是会看他们。其关键在于，这些小孩得到了注意。而非成为背景。这却是我们成年人，尤其是内向的成年人的问题。我们现在比以往都要沉浸在自己的世界里。重要的是，学习一下那些外向的小孩吧，大声地说话让大家了解你，这样你就更能够得到别人的关注和喜爱。值得庆幸的是，你不必像别人大吐特吐你的内心世界，只要在交流中稍稍透露一点真实的你就行了。

When talking about your job, mention how your brother inspired your career moves.

当谈论到工作，你就一笔带过说你的兄弟是怎样鼓舞你创业的。

Ask what they like to do for fun, then reveal your favorite free-time activities.

问问他们喜欢找什么样的乐趣，然后再说出你空闲时最喜欢的活动。

Show vulnerability once you get to know each other, like how you try to eat better but keep hitting Dunkin' Donuts.

一旦了解了彼此，就透露一些缺点，比如你想吃得健康营养，却又不停地吃Dunkin’甜甜圈。