3. Happy people don't sweat the small stuff.
快乐人群不拘于小事
One of the biggest things happy people do differently compared to unhappy people is they let stuff go. Bad things happen to good people sometimes. Happy people realize this, are able to take things in stride, and move on. Unhappy people tend to dwell on minor inconveniences and issues, which can perpetuate feelings of sadness, guilt, resentment, greed, and anger.
和那些不快乐的人相比,快乐人群最大的特点在于他们不拘小节。坏事时时发生。快乐人群意识到这点,也有能力力挽狂澜,继续前进。不快乐的人总是纠结于一丁点的不顺心和小事情,带来的是无止境的难过、负罪感、怨恨、妒忌以及愤怒。
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