As Greek philosopher Epictetus once theorized, "We have two ears and one mouth so we can listen twice as much as we speak." So how do we start using those features moreproportionally -- or, as Sacco advises -- access our inner good listener?
希腊哲学家爱比克泰德曾将此理论化,“我们有两只耳朵一张嘴,是为了让倾听达到讲话的两倍之多。”所以,怎样开始更依比例来运用这些特征呢?或者,如萨科所建议的——接近我们内在好的倾听者呢?
以下的八个习惯,好的倾听者会在每日的生活和对话中练习,你也可以博取为自己所用。