背景介绍：

frame of reference：意思是我没有相关的经历来进行对比（就是说他以前是处男）。

词组学习：

1. check out: 检验；结账离开；通过考核；盖章

eg. Check out the worst one of the bunch.
从这一群人中找出最糟的一个。

eg. Could you tell us what we can look forward to and which one is your favorite that everyone should check out?
你能告知我们可以期待什么以及你最喜好的是哪个，大家可以对其检验？

2. throw this away: 错过（机会等）

eg. Can you really afford to throw this away?
你真的能接受把他们都丢掉？

eg. It would be foolhardy to throw this away with promises that cannot be fulfilled, even if only to win the primary.
把这和无法实现的承诺一同抛弃，这将是鲁莽之举，即便只是为了赢得初选。