10. Be open minded about your potential partner. Don't be too picky with a long shopping list nor too random in your choices. Both are fruitless - restrict yourself to three "must haves" and let the rest unfold naturally.
10. 宽容开放的思想。不要为一些并不太重要的判断上和爱人争执，宽容一点对自己也对别人，这样生活可能会更加轻松。