7. Resolve to be firm but fair - letting someone down with a polite but clear message that you're not a match made in heaven, is better than being stuck on a second or third date because you don't want to upset them.
7. 对待感情同样有原则——也许偶尔让对方失望也不赖嘛！由于你礼貌的拒绝很清楚的告诉他你们并不非生来合适，这样总好过你因为不想拒绝对方在第二次或者第三次约会时感情就遇到瓶颈。

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