9. Money

I’m not talking about sharing five dollars here or 20 dollars there. I’m talking about loans of substantial porportion. I have seen with my own two eyes (the same two that are not sharing bacteria with any of my friends thankyouverymuch) friendships completely fall apart under the stress and pressure of money issues. Money is sticky enough to navigate on your own, but add in another person’s emotions and you have the fuel for a destructive fire. Avoid lending large amounts of money to your girlfriends at all costs. It just may save your friendship.

At their foundation, friendships truly are about sharing life together. Moments of joy, moments of sadness, adventures, phases, relationships, highs, lows, fashion trends, fashion mistakes, films, music, laughter, love, faith, hope.

But the key is focusing your efforts on sharing the good stuff and not on spreading the bad.
借大量的钱。少借一点钱应急是可以的，但涉及到大数目就容易引起麻烦了。