Let Go of Dating Myths

根除关于约会的荒诞想法

Dating is exhausting and not worth my time. I'll never meet The One. All the good ones are taken.

约会是很累的，不值得我浪费时间。我永远碰不到合适的人。好的人都名花有主了。

These three statements are myths about dating that seriously require thought if they are going through your head. Dating isn't about negative thoughts; its about meeting as many interesting people as you can while having faith that you'll meet someone special.

这三个关于约会的想法是荒诞的，你要想想自己是否真的认真考虑过了。约会不是消极的，带着你终究会遇到对的人的想法，尽量和很多有趣的人约会。

Following this dating rule means you need to stop focusing on the person you are trying to meet, and focus on the spotlight instead on yourself.

照着这些约会准则做的话就意味着你不能再一味地想着要找某个特定的人，而要将关注的重点放在自己身上。