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Hey Psych2Goers, welcome back to another video.
嘿，大家好，欢迎回来。
First of all, we'd like to thank you all for the support that you've given us.
首先，我们要感谢大家对我们的支持。
Psych2Go's mission is to make psychology and mental health more accessible to everyone, and you definitely help us do that, so thank you.
Psych2Go的使命是让每个人都能更容易地接触到心理学和心理健康，你肯定在帮助我们做到这一点，所以谢谢大家。
Now, back to the video. Are you struggling with your sexual identity? Do you think you may be asexual?
现在，回到视频。你有为自己的性别身份而挣扎吗？你有觉得自己可能是无性者吗？
Trying to figure out what your sexual orientation may be, especially when you're growing up can be a daunting and frustrating experience.
想要弄清楚自己的性取向是什么，尤其是在你成长的过程中，可能是一种令人畏惧和沮丧的经历。
You may feel uncertain, afraid, and even overwhelmed when you approach the subject or read up on the topic.
当你接近这个话题或阅读这个话题时，你可能会感到不确定，害怕，甚至不知所措。
So, to help you out, here are six signs on what it means to be asexual.
所以，为了帮助你，这里有关于无性者的6种迹象。
Before we begin, we would like to note that everyone expresses their sexual orientation differently.
开始之前我们想指出，每个人表达性取向的方式都不一样。
Some may identify with all or some of the signs we mentioned. Others may relate to a few or none that we've listed.
有些人可能会认同我们提到的全部或部分症状，其他人则可能与我们列出的一些相关，或者毫不相关。
Our list is not definitive, but are only some of the key aspects we've chosen.
我们的列表不是决定性的，只是我们选择的一些比较重要的方面。
Number one. The lack of sexual attraction.
第一，缺乏性吸引力。
Are your romantic relationships based on sexual attraction?
你们的恋爱关系是建立在性吸引力的基础上的吗？
Asexuality refers to a lack of or low level of sexual attraction to others.
无性者指的是对他人缺乏性吸引力或性吸引力水平较低。
So, instead of sexual attraction, asexuals are more likely to experience other forms of attraction, like platonic, romantic, and so on. More on that later.
所以，除了性吸引，无性恋者更有可能体验到其他形式的吸引，比如柏拉图式的，浪漫的，等等。稍后会详细介绍。
However, some asexuals do experience sexual attraction sometimes. Demisexual, for example, is a type of asexuality.
然而，有些无性恋者有时也会受到性吸引。例如，半性恋就是无性恋的一种。
If you'd like to know more about demisexuality, you can check out the video we've made on that topic too.
如果大家想了解更多关于半异性恋的知识，也可以看看我们做的关于这个话题的视频。
Number two. Asexuals could crave relationships, just without the sexual element.
第二，无性恋者可能渴望一段没有性元素的关系。
While some asexuals don't experience any sexual attraction, that doesn't mean they can't experience other forms of attraction,
虽然一些无性恋者不会感受到任何性吸引，但这并不意味着他们不会感受到其他形式的吸引，
which include, romantic attraction, the desire to have a romantic relationship with someone, aesthetic attraction,
包括浪漫的吸引，与某人建立浪漫关系的渴望，审美的吸引
the attraction towards someone based on how they look, sensual or physical attraction, the desire to touch, hold, or cuddle someone.
对某人外表的吸引，感官或身体的吸引，对抚摸的渴望，拥抱某人。
platonic attraction, the desire to be friends with someone, and emotional attraction, the desire to have an emotional connection with someone.
柏拉图式的吸引，也就是想和某人成为朋友的欲望，还有情感上的吸引，也就是想和某人有情感上的联系。
Number three. They get over crushes easily.
第三，他们很容易克服暗恋。
Are your crushes short-lived? Sometimes asexuals may put an end to their relationships with another person when the relationship becomes too intimate.
你的暗恋是短暂的吗？有时当无性恋者和另外一个人关系变得太亲密时可能会终止其关系。
They value more romantic or physical attractions over sexual attraction.
比起性吸引，他们更看重浪漫或身体上的吸引。
So if these values don't align or agree with their crush's values, then they're likely to let go early on in the relationship.
所以，如果这些价值观与他们喜欢的人的价值观不一致，那么他们很可能在恋情初期就放弃。
Number four. Not having any celebrity crushes.
第四，没有喜欢的明星。
Speaking of crushes, have you ever had a celebrity crush ever in your life? If you haven't, that's totally okay.
说到迷恋，你生命中曾有迷恋过名人吗？如果没有，也没关系。
In fact, a lot of us have aesthetic attractions towards celebrities based on how they present themselves, whether on the red carpet or in movies and TV.
事实上，无论是在红毯上还是在电影和电视中，我们很多人对名人的审美吸引力都是基于他们表现自己的方式。
So, while asexuals may have a preference to which celebrity they like or admire, it's unlikely that their preference is based on a sexual attraction to them.
所以，虽然无性恋者可能对他们喜欢或崇拜的名人有自己的偏好，但他们的偏好不太可能是基于对名人的性吸引。
Number five. Some asexuals may only experience sexual attraction in certain circumstances.
第五，一些无性恋者可能只在某些情况下才会受到性吸引。
Asexuality has a wide spectrum. Some may only experience sexual attraction in very limited circumstances, while some may experience none at all.
无性恋的范围很广，有些人可能只在非常有限的情况下能体验到性吸引，而有些人则可能完全没有。
For example, people who are demisexual, which falls under the asexual umbrella, experience sexual attraction only when they have a deep connection to a person.
例如，半性恋的人属于无性恋的范畴，只有当他们和一个人有很深的联系时才会感受到性吸引。
This means they might only feel sexually attracted to people they have deep romantic relationships with.
这意味着他们可能只对和自己有很深恋爱关系的人有性吸引。
And number six, sex depends.
第六，性要看情况。
Is sex a must for your relationships? Most asexuals often don't need sex to satisfy themselves over the course of their lifetime.
性是人际关系的必需品吗？大多数无性恋者在他们的一生中并不需要性来满足自己。
They may feel that there's an abundance of activities and events waiting for them to enjoy, other than focusing on intimate relationships.
他们可能觉得除了关注亲密关系外，还有很多活动等着他们去享受。
However, some may want sex due to hopes of conceiving children, to satisfy their libido, or to feel physically close with their partner.
然而，有些人想要性可能是为了怀上孩子，满足他们的性欲，或者感觉与伴侣的身体亲密。
Did this video help you learn more about asexuality? Let us know in the comments below.
这个视频帮助你了解更多关于无性恋的知识了吗？请在下方评论区告诉我们。
If you found this video helpful, be sure to like and share this video with those who might benefit from it.
如果你觉得本期视频有帮助，请一定要点赞并与那些可能从中受益的人分享。
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当Psych2Go发布新视频时，不要忘记订阅并点击通知图标。
The references and studies used in this video are added in the description below. Thanks for watching, and we'll see you in our next video.
本视频中使用的参考文献和研究将添加在下方的描述中。感谢收看，我们下期视频见。
