男人说:Uh huh. Right. Yeah. 嗯哼。对。是的。
女人的理解:He couldn't be less interested in what I'm saying. 他对我说的事情一点都不感兴趣。
男人本意:I want to hear your story, but it's been 10 minutes and still no punch line. 我想听你的故事,但十分钟过去了你还是没说出个所以然来。
Men don't process information in the lengthy way that women do, so telling him a story in the drawn-out way you would to one of your girlfriends isn't going to work. In short, cut to the chase and you'll get more of a reaction.
女人处理的信息冗长,而男人不是这样,所以像跟你的姐妹淘闲聊那样没完没了地讲给他听是行不通的。总之,说话直截了当,你会得到更多回应。