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男人说：I need some space. 我需要一些空间。
女人的理解：He doesn't want to be with me. 他不想和我在一起了。
男人本意：I care about you, but I also want some more independence. 我关心你，但我也想要更多的独立空间。
In many romantic relationships, men use this blanket phrase instead of being more specific, as in: "I love the connection we have, but I miss spending time with my friends as well." Use your judgment: If he's still being affectionate and just feels a bit smothered, give him some breathing room. However, if you're only hanging out once a week to begin with, it might just be that he wants to end things--in which case, walk away.
在很多恋爱关系中，男人们都会说这种模棱两可的话，而不是说得更详尽，比如， “我喜欢我们之间的关系，但我也想念跟朋友们相处的时间。”运用你的判断力：如果他仍爱你，只是觉得有点透不过气，那就给他一些喘息的空间吧。但是，如果前提是你每周只和他出去玩一次，那么这可能是他想结束关系的讯号——如果是这种情况，还是离开他为好。
