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Be mysterious.
It is important for a relationship to have some mystery to keep the element of surprise present. If you are too predictable, your man can get bored easily. If he knows every word you are going to say before you say it or know every action you are going to take before you take it, you could be too predictable. Remember that men love to be surprised by you and being mysterious can keep him to stay intrigued.
保持神秘感。
保持一定的神秘感、时不时带来一些惊喜对于一段关系来说很重要。如果你总是一成不变，你男友可能容易感到无聊。如果他能预见每一句她将要说的话和每一个你要做的行动，那么你可能真的太墨守陈规了。记住男人们总是喜欢你带来惊喜，所以有一点神秘感会让他被你死死迷住。
Be a woman.
In society today, men and women are mainly considered equal. Women can do anything men can do, right? Wrong. Women need to be women. If you are too competitive or too masculine, men can lose interest fast. Men typically want a woman who is loving, caring, and feminine. The last thing a man wants in a relationship is to feel like he is dating another man. You must remember your feminine roots and channel your feminine energies to help and guide you to be a woman.
有点女人味。
而今的社会，男女之间首要考虑的是平等。男人们能做的一切女人们也能做到，是吗？错！女人就是女人。如果你太好胜、太男性化，男人们很快就失去兴趣了。男人们尤其想要钟情、有爱心和有女人味的女人。一段关系中男人最讨厌的就是让他感觉他在和另一个男人约会。你必须记住你骨子里是个女人，并且调动你所有女人的能量来帮助和引导你做一个真正的女人。
It is important to take good care of yourself, as well. Men want a woman who cares about herself and can show it. This can be opposite of clinginess and neediness. If you show your man that you are capable of taking care of yourself, it can show him that you are ready for a long term commitment and not only looking for love as something fun for the moment.
当然，照顾好你自己也同样重要。男人们喜欢能够照顾自己并且把这个优点表现出来的女人。这应该就是粘人和需求过高的对立面。如果你在男人面前表现出你能很好地照顾自己，这也传达出为一个长期的承诺做好了准备，不会只把爱情当做一时找的乐子。
