Communication.

If you feel that your man is not committing or does not seem interested in making a long term commitment, communicate with him about it. If you have questions, ask him. It is important to make sure you are both on the same page before diving in to any kind of relationship. Let him know that you are looking for a long term partner and are interested in committing to him. Give him a chance to communicate with you about his goals as well. The worst that can happen is he does not tell you what you want to hear and that simply means he is not the one for you. Communication can go a long way with your partner and I would highly recommend it.

沟通。

如果你感到你的男人不会做出承诺，似乎对于做出长期承诺也没什么兴趣， 也许该找他聊聊。如果你有疑问，直接问他。在投入到一段关系之前确定你们俩在同一个进度上是很重要的。让他知道你在找一个能够长期相守的伴侣并且也有兴趣做出承诺。给他和你沟通的机会，谈谈他的目标。最坏的情况就是你听不到你想听的内容，那很可能表他不是那个对的人。沟通总是让你和伴侣走的更远，我强烈推荐。

Some men are simply late bloomers. They want to commit, but they are not ready quite as quickly as women. They really take the whole shebang into consideration before thinking about tying the knot or making a long-term commitment. Try not to rush your man. Enjoy each day as it comes and let things progress nicely. If you get so caught up in committal issues, you might not be able to enjoy the relationship right now and that won’t do anyone any good.

有人就是简简单单地反应慢半拍。他们想要承诺，但不能像女人一样那么快做好准备。他们会先考虑事业，再考虑做出一个长期的承诺。尽量不要催促你的伴侣。自然而然地享受每一天，让事情顺其自然地发展。如果你因承诺这件事而如此困扰，你可能不能好好享受当下的幸福，那对任何人都不会有好处。