4. The Lying
4.谎言

You’re not going to find a much worse sign that you’re in a toxic relationship than if your partner is overtly lying to you. Some liars are so good at what they do that it almost seems as if they believe the lies that they tell instead of the truth, and blame you for not believing them. This is probably the most toxic trait on this list. If you’re the one who thinks you need to hide everything from your partner, consider the harm you are doing both to that person and to yourself: eventually your lies are going to get you dumped.
你不会找到一个更糟糕的迹象表明你正处在一段不良的关系中，那就是你的伴侣经常对你公然说谎。有些骗子的骗术非常高明，他们的谎言几乎以假乱真，如果你不相信他们的谎言，他们就会指责你不信任他们。这可能是这个名单上最坏特质。如果你认为你是那个需要经常向你的伴侣隐藏一些事实的人，你可以考虑一下你的谎言将带给你们两个人的伤害，最终你的谎言会让你一无所有。