7. "Support other women instead of criticizing them." Oprah thinks we gals are too judgmental of each other. My gut response was defensiveness and finger pointing; I even judged Oprah for judging me for being too judgmental. But then I took a good hard look at my habit of criticizing the other women’s choices and priorities, and realized she was right. I think my reward in achieving this goal will to also become less judgmental of myself. Frankly, the woman I’m the hardest on — who I beat up emotionally and spiritually — is me.
“肯定别人，而不是否定他们。”奥普拉认为人们太喜欢用自己的标准去评定他人。

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