8. "Stop defining yourself by what you see — or what you think you see — when you look in the mirror." This would be easier if I didn’t have such a crooked nose, flabby belly and giant man-sized feet. That was supposed to be a joke. But sadly, it’s what I see in my reflection, and where I focus my dissatisfaction.
“眼见不一定为实——对自己看到的，认为自己看到的东西发出疑问”。我们经常为自己塌下来的鼻子，松垮的肚皮而困扰，不要将自己锁在消极的一面，而忽略了自己的优点。

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