So, how do you do it? Prepare for the call. The Caller Guessing Technique. Now, the way this technique works is that you’re simply letting her guess it’s you,while using callback humor and topics. When she answers the phone, you’re not going ‘Hey, this is Ben, we met at…’ You’re not even identifying it’s you. You might say something cheeky or something interesting or flirting on the phone that is specific to you and her andthe interaction that you guys had when you met. Now you’re starting to see why it’s so important to be present, to use the techniques, to flirt, to spark attraction, to connect.You find out things about the girl,she finds out things about you,you’ve got this dynamic going back and forward, and now you’ve got useful things that you can talk about when you make the first call, when you’re out on that first date. There shouldn’t have to be any of those awkward silences,there should be always things to talk about. And when you get very,very good at this, you’ll actually get women saying to you, ‘I feel Icould say anything to you. You just,I just feel so comfortable.’ And that will happen, as you become really,really good.

那么，你该怎么做呢？打电话前做好准备。采用“揣测谁的来电”技巧。这个技巧的原理在于，你要简简单单地让她猜出是你——这时要使用上次面对面聊天时的幽默和话题。她接通电话之后，你不能说“你好，我是本，咱们上次在哪里见过……”你千万不能明确你是谁。你应该在电话里说些挑逗的话或者有趣的话或者调调情，说到的内容必须仅限于你和她之间，仅限于你们俩上次遇到时交流过的内容。这样你就开始发现为何当时见面是如此重要，使用一些技巧是如此重要，调情、激发兴趣以及心领神会是如此重要。你能从中了解那个女孩的事，她也会了解到你的事，你们这种互动不断来回，现在你就有了一些很有用的信息可以在第一次打电话的时候提起，以及第一次正式约会的时候聊聊。这其中不该有任何那种尴尬的沉默，而应该是总有说不完的话。当你在这方面表现得非常好的时候，你就可以真的让女士们对你说出“我觉得什么事都可以跟你说，你真是……你让我感觉很舒服。”在你表现得非常好的时候，这就会发生了。